What to say to a survivor
- I’m here for you
- I love you
- I believe you
- Thank you for telling me
- It is ok to be angry
- It’s not your fault
What not to say to a survivor
- I feel sorry for you
- It wasn’t that bad
- What were you wearing
- You should forgive and move on
- Time heals all wounds
- God will have a lesson in this for you
- He’s family so it’s different